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Tips on shooting a home video? My roommate and I are going to be shooting a homemade video later tonight for the fun of it. (I'm a guy, she's a girl, and yes it's a sex tape, before you ask.) Anyway, since most amateur porn sucks, I was hoping to get tips on shooting a decent quality home movie so it will at least look as good as possible. Angles, lighting, etc. | Angles are up to you - but if you watch examples that you like, then copy them.
Use a tripod.
LOTS of light.
Adjust the white balance correctly.
This is no different from any other production. | My wife asked me to get some erotica for us to watch...need advice? We have been married for 12 years and we have 2 guys 8 & 10. We did watch some porn in our first year of marriage but nothing major and nothing since then. Our sex life has never been very good and we aren't always very intimate in general. We started going to marriage counseling a few months ago, and at the last session the counselor suggested that my wife get some "erotica" (her professional term) to get her more in the mood.
Today we visited the counselor again, and the topic came up. I volunteered to "get her some movies" during my upcoming business trip to bangkok, where i know there is a large selection. She responded "ok... how about amateur movies like the ones we used to watch on the playboy channel a long time ago"
So, I can probably find some kind of amateur movies... but I'm still afraid of exactly how to handle it when I bring them home. My wife is very conservative and we have had a lot of difficulty getting to intimacy. Has anyone been in this situation? What are some tips that I should or shouldn't do? I am afraid she will clam up or not like the movies... or maybe she will watch them and like them but then still not want to do anything.
Suggestions? | perhaps the first time or two that she watches these films she should watch them alone
that way she can get comfortable with watching them
then once she's comfortable with the films in general, she could pick out one that she likes and show it to you
she could tell you she'd like to do this or that, and use the movies to show you exactly what she wants
just try to communicate with her
I know its hard but open, non-judgemental communication is the best way to earn a woman's trust and love, trust and love being your sure-fire ticket to better sex and in turn a better relationship
also
try to keep in mind when picking out the "erotica"
most of these movies are made for men to watch...women aren't interested in the same type of things that men are interested in
so you can't just walk into the shop and grab something that you think you would like
instead, try to get something made by a woman director, that way you know that it is directed with what women want kept in mind
here are some links with lists of PORN MADE FOR WOMEN to help you out:
www.pornmoviesforwomen.com/pornmo…
www.babeland.com/sexinfo/features…
love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboo…
good luck | Is filming a love scene for a movie the same as cheating on your real-life partner? Please read full question? Hello everyone, first of all let me clarify this: I've been an amateur stage actor for a short while and I got to play a kissing scene on stage, but in that case the director had me get in front of the actress and we just looked at each other, moved our heads a bit and did nothing else at all, I turned my back on the audience and that concealed the lack of any actual kissing going on. It was very unrealistic.
In movies though (and television as well), love and sex scenes are always very detailed, I'm not talking porn movies; they don't actually have sex, or so they say, but kisses are definitely real, you even get to see tongues at times, same goes for all the rubbing and fondling and all physical contact apart from penetration.
I'm very sensitive to certain scenes, when I watch them I don't think about the story and the characters as much as I think about the "real" people playing the scene, and I ask myself: how do they get away with filming this without making their real significant others jealous?
In my opinion, to shoot such scenes convincingly it is impossible not to feel something for your scene partner, don't you think? If you really "pretend" it would be the PARODY of a love scene, wouldn't it?
That said, do you think it is right to classify love scenes on the set as cheating on real life partners?
Moreover, have you ever noticed how, in special making-of features, behind-the-scenes footage exists of everything...except for love scenes?
I mean, this is stuff that deals with moral principles as well, what's the use in never revealing the truth as if it was some Copperfield or Houdini magic trick that must be kept secret?
If you were married or engaged to an actor/actress, how would you react if he/she came home and told you he/she filmed a sex scene? I'd really like to hear your opinions and I'm totally ready to be proved wrong about my way of thinking...and if there are any actors or other people involved in the acting biz, It would be great to hear their personal stories about what you feel when you have to film a love scene, how their real wives/hubbies/gf/bf's react to said scenes.
Me, personally, after my woman's umpteenth sex scene with another man, I would pack her suitcases and let her find them at the front door! Would I be unprofessional? Immature? A bad sport?
Answers I would not like to read:
- "don't marry an actress, you'll solve the problem": cowardly answer. Period.
- "it's their job": that would be like justifying prostitution, "you know, my wife has sex with every single man in town, gets every single STD there is, maybe gets pregnant from someone, gets back home so tired I'm the only one she doesn't make love to at the end of the day...but it's her job, she brings home the bacon and that's OK with me"...also, who on earth would like their relationship and all real feelings they get from it, to be second-best to an ersatz version performed for the sake of a million-dollar cheque?
- "how old are you? is your mind OK?" and other similar, pisstake answers; I would like to talk about this seriously, I'm 23 y/o and there's nothing wrong about being curious about such things even at my age.
As I said before, answers from people who are in the business are even more welcome (actors, directors, etc.) Sorry 'bout the long question, now I'll let your answers do the talking :-)
Thanks and all the best! | Okay. Here's the deal, I think I can provide you with some unique insight regarding this question. I won't specify what I used to do...let's say it was a form of acting, in which I was in this very position. Did I feel strange about it; not one bit. I didn't feel a THING for the men I had to "act" with. I simply kissed them (and that was all btw), made it very convincing for an audience...then went home to my boyfriend who wasn't concerned in the least. I guess it all depends on how well you know your partner, and how secure you feel with yourself, and your relationship. After all, it's all about trust.
My feelings were no different than performing for a room full of overzealous college boys with another girl, for fun...to get a "rise" out of them. It's entertainment, and that's it. It isn't meant to be taken seriously.
Now, in that moment, all I was thinking of was the most passionate thing I could at the time, whether that be my boyfriend, some guy I liked, or whatever....but it was never focused on the person I was kissing. Isn't that what's referred to as method acting? I'm unsure but either way, it convinced my audience.
Therefore, I don't think it's cheating in the least. I never thought about these people again. Whether they thought of me or not, I don't really know. I know I had a few admirers, but I brushed them off quickly, and professionally....albeit callously. It was part of my job, and that was acting. Acting has nothing to do with love. Making that distinction is quite important if you're thinking about going into the business or having a mate who does. Just keep that in mind.
I hope that clears a few things up for you. Cheers. :)
Edit: I wanted to let you know that both my boyfriend and myself were about your age or YOUNGER when I had this job. It WAS an acting job, on a stage, and I don't see how that would be any different from any other "type" of "professional" acting/whether it be on stage or screen. If anything, if your mate is professionally trained, and knows how to separate herself from the situation in such a manner, you shouldn't worry one bit....and no, it isn't cheating. Like I said, my feelings for these people were zero....just keep that in mind....but I loved my boyfriend (at that time) to death. We eventually broke up because he had to move away, NOT because of anything having to do with my job. ;)
Oh, and kissing while truly acting felt awkward more than anything, I would imagine like it would feel kissing a sibling....so trust me, that method acting REALLY comes in handy lol. In between sets we were just good friends that would occasionally hang out, talk, and joke around. Just a friendship/business relationship, nothing more. So no, again, I don't view it as cheating in the least.
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Hey Pinco, shoot me a private message and we'll chat there. To do so in a question violates the terms of service. I will be willing to answer all of your questions through emails. :) | Should I tell people about my past? Please do not judge me when I tell you about my career choices. Only answer my question or don't respond.
I am 26 years old, female, have an amazing bf I've been with for five years now. I have loving parents and have always had a good life growing up in a middle class neighborhood. I've always been the relationship type girl, not so much promiscuous at all.
But when I was 20 years old, I made a shocking career move. I've always been told I have the look of a playboy model. lol. Cheesy as it sounds, even my mom once told me I could be a playboy model. lol, but as a joke. Not thinking one day I'd actually become one. I never once thought about posing nude in a magazine before. but then a female friend of mine took nude photos of me and printed them out of a glossy paper. I loved the way I looked for some weird reason. That fun, drunk little photo shoot all of a sudden made me curious about the adult film/magazine industry.
I ended up grabbing a copy of Hustler magazine one time and sometimes there are amateur model contests so I, mostly out of boredom, sent Hustler my amateur photos. Weeks later, someone with Hustler magazine contacted me and told me I won first place in the contest and my photos were going into their magazine under amateur contest winners. I also got an offer through hustler to fly out to southern California to do a professional photo shoot and be featured in their magazine. So I went to LA, did the photo shoot for one day, got paid $500 and went home the next day. I also made contact with some actual adult modeling agencies. It wasn't long after I returned home (from LA) that I was sent to Miami for magazine and video work. I did only solo and girl/girl video plus more magazines. Then I flew back to the SF Valley, CA and got a lot of work, including a photo shoot in Playboy magazine (btw, I'm NOT a playmate. Just an extra model that was working with the actual Playmate model. They needed a couple background models, lol) but I have a lot of credit in other magazines and movies. I really made a name for myself and was doing it off and on for five years.
To me, it was "another day at the office". lol. I didn't think of it like "wow, I'm having sex with a stranger". Everyone I worked with was really nice, I made great money and never got diseases or anything. lol. My boyfriend was comfortable with it as long as I was comfortable doing it. He has no part in the adult film industry. But I fully retired 1 1/2 years ago because we are getting more serious now, I only want him to have me. =-)
The thing is, even though I'm no longer involved in the adult film industry, it's still part of who I am. Everyone I know, knows what I did. But when I meet new people, for some reason I just assume they know who I am when they probably really don't. But if they hang out with me long enough, someone will tell them because of course, this makes an interesting topic of conversation. lol. But what I'm asking, is when I meet someone new and we are acquaintances or new friends, should I tell them about my past and pretty much say "hi, I'm an ex porn star. Are you okay with that"? Is this a topic that needs to come up and if so, how soon after becoming friends should I let them know. Same goes for jobs. I am doing mainstream modeling now and I'm a contract model with a popular makeup line. But when I'm not working, I am home all the time. Sometimes I think about getting a real job. Or even volunteering. But should I bring this up to co workers or keep it a secret. Usually I keep it a secret. When I was a flight attendant, I told no one I worked with. But anyway, should I discuss this with people? Sorry so long and please do not say anything negative, it was my past and I accept that 100%. | | Most people will never know, so tell on a need to know basis only. | Strange things in Paris, what should I do? I was born in Epinal, in the Vosges. I am an only son, my parents were both teachers, and my father was an amateur violinist, so he introduced me to music. I went to the conservatory in Strasbourg when I was 13, and had to leave at 15, because I had trouble with my lungs. I spent a year in a sanatorium, was cured, enrolled into a conservatory in Paris, and now I am a first violin in a string orchestra and live all alone at 14 Rue de L'Aloutte, 7th arrondissement. My life is very uneventful, though I do travel a lot with my orchestra, even to the USA. But everything changed. It started this morning, when I was in Munich with my orchestra. My copains nailed my shoes in front of my door in the hotel, where I put them to be polished. They are constantly playing pranks on me. So, I had to fly back to Paris wearing one black shoe and one brown shoe. At home, I took a bath and tried to brush my teeth, strangely, there was shaving cream in the toothpaste tube, and toothpaste in my shaving cream. I do not understand how they changed places, I used both tubes before and they were fine. And nobody finds this strange! Then I went running to the park with a friend from the orchestra, Maurice, and he had visions and heard voices! He is a strong, athletic man, and very normal. I went back home and someone rang the bell, I opened and there was a very beautiful woman, who came to ask for violin lessons for her six years old son. She invited me to come and have a look at her father's collection of rare musical instruments, too, after my concert. During the concert, I snapped a string, and it hit my nose. I went to that woman afterwards, and she was all alone, and we started kissing and had champagne and then we had sex all night. Everything is so strange and unreal, not like my life at all, more like some movie or something. What should I do? | | You need to enjoy every event of your life....This is the cycle of life.... Enjoy every bit of it..., | Found wife's hidden vacation video. Do I need to ask? We visited my wife's college friend last month. She married and moved to another country a few years ago and they wanted to get together again. We stayed at their place and one day the friend stole my wife for a day so they could catch up. They were gone all day and most of the night. She said they went shopping and got makeovers, which was obvious. She was in a club kind of dress she would never wear at home...lots more makeup...and a spiky hairstyle. She looked great, but not what I'm used to. May be TMI, but the sex that night was phenomenal. I asked about her day but she didn't want to talk about it. She laughed and said don't worry, she didn't screw anybody. I didn't think much about it again until yesterday. I was bored and looking for a movie in her stash of chick flicks and fitness videos when I found one that was unmarked. It was two hours of her day and night out. I won't describe everything in detail, but it started with the makeover and shopping. There was a visit to a nude beach. More shopping. A strip club where they took part in an amateur competition, including lap dances. More shopping...for the club dresses this time. Then finally a dance club. They didn't record everything, but there was dancing, making out, flashing, and other craziness you would expect. I promised I wouldn't ask her about that day again, and I feel bad that I found the dvd while I was going through her stuff. Everything is totally normal since we've been home, and I wonder if I should tell her what I know and start a major conflict over this. Sorry for the long question. | | Maybe let it go if you don't suspect it will ever happen again. Maybe she had a small "crisis." She's probably over it. I don't know, though. They do say that the key to great relationships is openness and honestly. Ahh *sigh* ...and come to think of it, it will probably bother u if you don't ask her about it. I would maybe ask very casually and see what she says. Hopefully she'll say something to ease you of any worries and then you do need to drop it. | Tips on shooting a home video? My roommate and I are going to be shooting a homemade video later tonight for the fun of it. (I'm a guy, she's a girl, and yes it's a sex tape, before you ask.) Anyway, since most amateur porn sucks, I was hoping to get tips on shooting a decent quality home movie so it will at least look as good as possible. Angles, lighting, etc. | | idk ae but you could use some good lighting and zoom in to those parts to make it fun and all the other things you do. just have the camera positioned good and great lightings to make it look fun! |
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