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Guys, is it true that if you didn't look at 40 naked teen models a day you'd be more attracted to your wife? Seems reasonable to me. But I'm not a guy. | You are accusing every reader of looking at naked teen models, and not being attracted to their wives?
Classy.
From a male perspective, trust me, nothing diminishes our sex drive. We could look at 300 naked teens, do three 'warm-up's' in the morning, and still be ready to go after dinner.
I should clarify, however, that I love my wife dearly, and our guys, and I do not look at pornography out of respect to her. I doubt it would diminish my love for her, as it is based on much more than her physical appearance...though she is absolutely beautiful. | Who else believes teen girls lack role models? Such as Miley Cyrus and Vanessa Hudgens with exposing half naked /completely naked photos of themselves.
How can Disney not let them be fired? So if she comes out with a porno all she has to do is say sorry and slap fans with a next season of her inflating diva ego.
And for Rihanna, another teen look up with new exposing half naked photos and people commenting on her saying shes "hot" and the photos are "sexy". Completely topless, she should know better since she's a role model for young girls.
Also, giving the message it's "okay" to stay with someone who abused you, there will be most a likely time he'll do it again. | Honestly, they never asked to be role models. Miley Cyrus and Vanessa Hudgens are regular people, with a lot of added pressure. Those picture scandals with Miley are not a big deal, a lot of people do much worse.
And with Vanessa Hudgens? That's her private, personal life with her boyfriend. If she admitted to being sexually active, everyone would create a huge controversy, but seriously, there are SO many people who are 20 and sexually active. She isn't a guy, she's allowed to do whatever she wants.
For Rihanna, have you ever been abused before with your boyfriend? It's harder than you think to just say "no, I'm leaving." Plus, everyone deals with things differently. So please, don't talk about things you don't know.
Stop looking for role models in the media, because more often than not, they're right in front of you! My father is my biggest role model. Although he is in prison right now, he is the smartest, kindest man I have ever met. I draw such a huge inspiration from him. He was homeless when we was little, something that most people can only imagine. Then he got a full scholarship to a top Ivy League university and changed his life dramatically. So seriously, would you call my father a bad role model because he went to jail? Everyone makes mistakes and unfortunately, people like you tend to look right past people's achievements.
Beaucoup D'amor
[Catherine] | Miss california posing naked as a minor, bristol unwed teen mother preaching abstinence, hypochrisy? christian conservative role models and speakers at their best?
yes or no
just curious.. | No, of course.
But that's just the way people are. | Trying to understand his porn use w/o losing my mind? My bf and I have been together 8 mos, live together – in our mid 30’s. I am liberal- self confident -independent. But this whole porn thing has thrown me. Please do not criticize me for living with him or monitoring activity. I am deeply concerned.
1) He surfs porn A LOT. When I leave in the am, he acts like he's sleeping but as soon as I leave he surfs and on days off as much as 3. He looks at videos and teen naked models. It has shaken my self confidence to the core. I feel it must be going on long before me, but am consumed it is his loss of desire for me.
2) Our sex life has decreased, while his porn has increased. I talk about this gently, but he says talking makes him feel pressure to perform. I am concerned this will destroy us.
3) Last night, I went to bed and he was surfing. The next day, he left it on the history. He got defensive and said it meant nothing- that he didn’t even masturbate (I don’t know why in his mind this makes a difference). I told him I don’t care if he does it but it is disrespectful when I am in the house. How could he not feel that is wrong? I fear there are no limits or self control at this stage. Will it be ok to text and flirt if he is not sleeping around. Where are the boundaries?
Can you actually love and respect someone and act like this? | You said the sex decreased while the porn increased. Not that I'm putting the blame on you, but if you care about him and want to be pro-active then see what he's looking at and try to act like those pornstars. Trust me, no matter how porn obsessed he is, the real thing is better. Be his pornstar and he won't have to look for one. Guys like variety, so if you don't want him to look at a variety of girls, then be a variety of girls. Buy outfits, wigs, play different situations etc. It could be a lot of fun, and you could both benefit from it.
A lot of times, guys look at porn because they see stuff they would never be able to do with their significant other. He might be right, depending on your friskiness level. If not, show him he can do these things with you and there may not be a need for porn. | Understanding his porn use w/o losing my mind ? My bf and I have been together 8 mos, live together – in our mid 30’s. I am liberal- self confident -independent. But this whole porn thing has thrown me. Please do not criticize me for living with him or monitoring activity. I am deeply concerned.
1) He surfs porn A LOT. When I leave in the am, he acts like he's sleeping but as soon as I leave he surfs and on days off as much as 3. He looks at videos and teen naked models. It has shaken my self confidence to the core. I feel it must be going on long before me, but am consumed it is his loss of desire for me.
2) Our sex life has decreased, while his porn has increased. I talk about this gently, but he says talking makes him feel pressure to perform. I am concerned this will destroy us.
3) Last night, I went to bed and he was surfing. The next day, he left it on the history. He got defensive and said it meant nothing- that he didn’t even masturbate (I don’t know why in his mind this makes a difference). I told him I don’t care if he does it but it is disrespectful when I am in the house. How could he not feel that is wrong? I fear there are no limits or self control at this stage. What if a girl starts paying him attention, will it be ok to text and flirt if he is not sleeping with her. Where are the boundaries?
Can you actually love and respect someone and act like this? | | He is probably looking at pornography because he is bored with the everyday sex he is getting. He is looking for something new and fresh, something he is not used to, it creates a spark in his sexual being, and makes him feel more adventurous. I agree that he should not be looking at porn as much as you say he does, but if you want him to quit, try new things in the bedroom, if he is usually dominant, then you be the dominant one. Try new things, and he will have something that seems different to him. And if he is looking at porn, and not masturbating, then maybe he needs help, he could have a porn addiction. And last but not least, if he is texting, calling, talking, etc. it does not mean he is wanting to cheat on you, maybe he needs someone to talk to, if you don't talk that much, maybe spend some quality time together and let him talk about some of his problems in life. Take this advice and I am sure you will have a stronger, more fulfilling relationship. | Trying to understand his porn use w/o me losing it? My bf and I have been together 8 mos, live together – in our mid 30’s. I am liberal- self confident -independent. But this whole porn thing has thrown me. Please do not criticize me for living with him or monitoring activity. I am deeply concerned. You can answer one bullet or all or a general perspective. Thank you.
1) He surfs porn A LOT. When I leave in the am, he acts like he's sleeping but as soon as I leave he surfs and on days off as much as 3 hours. He looks at videos and teen naked models. It has shaken my self confidence to the core. I feel it must be going on long before me, but am consumed it is his loss of desire for me.
2) Our sex life has decreased, while his porn has increased. I talk about this gently, but he says talking makes him feel pressure to perform. I am concerned this will destroy us.
3) Last night, I went to bed and he was surfing. The next day, he left it on the history. He got defensive and said it meant nothing- that he didn’t even masturbate (I don’t know why in his mind this makes a difference). I told him I don’t care if he does it but it is disrespectful when I am in the house. How could he not feel that is wrong? I fear there are no limits or self control at this stage. Will it be OK to text and flirt if he is not sleeping aroundr. Where are the boundaries?
Can you actually love and respect someone and act like this? | | It's what guys do, don't worry and don't feel insecure about it. Honestly though, it does sound like a bit of an addiction. You should allow him to look at it, but also ask him to just ease back a bit. As far as your sex life goes (slowing down).... have you extended the offer in a while? Have you put on your pump shoes and sexy lingerie and surprised him out of the blue? Guys love surprises!!! Spice it up a bit, get a little kinky. Good luck. | Dad looking at teen porn!? okay well a couple months ago i saw my dad looking at porn and stuff. like naked women and stuff.. and he is married and my mom has no idea he is doing that. every time you walk into the room he exits out the window all fast and everything. and ALWAYS ALWAYS deletes his search history and everything. well today he left for work and didn't think anybody would be home, but i got home early from my friends house and i checked the computer history(since he wasn't home) and i saw under the history "girls assholes" and "teen models" i have also seen a lot more than that and stuff about teens and i am almost 13 and he makes me feel really uncomfortable. what should i do? | Just say, "Dad, I'm a teenager now and you looking at all that teen girl 'stuff' on the computer is making me uncomfortable". He will be embarrassed for a while but it will be okay and i bet you he stops doing it. Telling your mom could cause problems with them... Don't be shy, its your Dad.
I know how you feel. | I want to become a male model? I'm only 13 years old, 5"4' 1/2, and 115 lbs. I want to do modeling though, modeling for Abercrombie Kids or something like that. Modeling for a clothing store that teens shop at. I don't want to be one of the shirtless or naked models though. I want to model hoodies in particular. I live on Long Island if that helps. Any ideas? Any agencies around here? NYC is only an hour away. | | If your not willing to share your body (shirtless) etc ... then you are too uptight to be a model. Modeling is super competitive, and all models in your age group have to take their shirt off sometimes. Are you sure you really want to be a model? Also you have to have a thick skin to be a model, and be able to take rejection on a regular basis. It's just part of the business. | How do i become a male model? Im 14 and I want to be a teen model.I already have a good figure but im only take good pictures when my shirt is off and my parents doesn't want me to only take half naked pictures so i need some tips on how to take better pictures to well thanks | | hi =] im fourteen too and am a model. im still really new at it but what i did is i put myself out there. its important to show the agent that theres something special about you that they need. try out for a many bookings that you can. and dont be upset if you dont get booked the first couple of times. every agent has there own vision of what they want there models to look like. so be confident =] and what i do is i sit infront of a mirror and go through all different types of emotions, i know that sounds retarded but it really will help when the photographer is screaming different emotions to do at you. lol good luck!! | Name of lifetime movie about teen internet pin up girl? I forgot the name of the movie its about this girl who becomes a model and gets caught up in the world of internet pin up or whatever.It comes on lifetime sometimes.She fights to get the images of her off line but her boss won't take them off unless she gets on camer naked. | Its 'Selling Innocence' from 2005
Its a high school girl looking to get extra money but is naive about what she is doing and didn't realize that she was involved in a form of pornography until its too late. |
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